HRGuru

No point worrying but you must have a sit down to share with your partner how his/her actions are making you feel.  I am no marriage/relationship counsellor, so perhaps a professional in that area might be of better assistance to you.  All the best.

I wouldn't worry until I had a talk with my husband and find out what part this person is playing in his life. It is so much easier to talk to someone about things, good and not so good, through a computer screen than it is face to face. Communication is what drives a relationship. You seem worried, and I think you should find out if you have something to worry about, the sooner the better. Maybe it would be easier to confront him in a neutral place, like a restaurant, where he cannot raise his voice. You are not alone, this goes on all of the time. I think it is a good thing that you know about it. I wish you the best of luck. Just remember, you are strong and you can let your feelings be known.

Any kind relationship with spouse and third party is of two kinds , withinin the knowledge and beyond knowledge. If the things are not in  my knowledge I have nothing to do . If the things grew under my nose . I have right to ask my spouse what about it at the same time I will also ask my self where I am failing . If the relation is beyond ethical jurisdiction ,in that  case I think I will resort to closing option. One must  remember that zealousy sometimes amplify small things . It needs time to build a home but it doesnot take time to destroy it .